How to say I love you in Japanese

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The most formal and neutral way to say 'I love you' in Japanese would be :

私はあなたが好きです。/ Watashi ha anata ga suki desu.

Let's decompose this :

  • 私 / 'watashi' = I, me
  • は / 'ha' (pronounce 'wa') is the particle for the subject.
  • あなた / 'anata' = you ; which you can replace with 君 / 'kimi' or おまえ / 'omae' (more familiar forms).
  • が / 'ga' = to make it simple, it's the particle for the object.
  • at last, 好きです / 'suki desu' means to love, or 好きだ / 'suki da' or 好き / 'suki' in the familiar form. You can add 大 / 'dai' before 'suki' to really mean it, which gives us 大好きです / 'daisuki desu'.

The whole first part (私はあなたが / 'watashi ha anata ga') is quite formal and not required, that's why you can hear a mere 大好きだ / 'daisuki da'…

More precisely, the Japanese character (kanji) for love is the same than in Chinese : 愛 pronounced 'ai' (at least sometimes). You can create a verb from it : 愛しています / 'aishiteimasu' in the polite form, 愛してる / 'aishiteru' in the neutral form. Its use is the same than 好きです / “suki desu”, except you have to replace が / 'ga' with を / 'wo' (pronounce 'o'), giving us 私はあなたを愛しています。/ Watashi ha anata wo aishiteimasu.

愛 / 'ai' and its derivatives are more meaningful than 好き / 'suki'. You can 'suki' baseball or ice creams, but you can only 'ai' someone.

Updated on July 12, 2022 - Comment dire « je t’aime » en japonais ?